A Love Explained

Kerry and I just got done watching Marley and Me. I never read the book and I think I want to pick it up to see how it compares to the movie, but I bet its beautifully written. I have never cried so hard during a movie until I saw this one. I am not sure what that says about me. Steel Magnolias, Family Stone and Step Mom break me because I am reminded of my mom, but I think over the years my heart has been comforted by happy memories. If you don't understand how someone can love their dog like they are part of the family, please watch this. It clearly explains the love for man's best friend. Clearly. Before Caleb was born, I always told Kerry that having a dog is good practice for children. Yes, I understand they are not the same, but in a way they are. The day they come home you are elated. You are no longer accountable for just yourself, but someone else. You will have days of frustration and joy, but at the end of the day you wouldn't trade it for anything.

Kerry and I brought Speedy home at 7 weeks old back in April of 2002 after choosing him amongst his brothers and sisters. It is hard to imagine how little he was, now being nearly 90lbs. He is an amazing dog, so fully of energy and love for just about anyone. He has been a part of our family for 7 years now and I am not looking forward to the day we will have to say goodbye. When Caleb will have to say goodbye. My son has grown to love "Seaby" and always looks forward to seeing him in the morning and when we come home. Speedy is great with Caleb, loves to play tug o war, share snacks and shower him in kisses. As a kid, I grew up with a dog and I think I will always need to have one in my life.........Kerry may disagree, but I think this movie changed his heart :)

I was reminded of my daily frustration with Speedy after watching this movie. How I can get so irritated by the fact that it takes him forever to find the right spot to pee when I am taking him for his morning potty break in my pajamas at our apartment complex. I am more worried about who will see me, rather than letting him enjoy the fresh air and finding the right place to mark his territory. Where is my patience? I can get frustrated with Caleb over not wanting to sit in his car seat or getting his diaper changed. Where is my patience?

Marley was a crazy dog. Crazy. I am not kidding. This family had frustration of course, but their love was stronger. Love wins.